But in the mind of an anxiously attached partner, that’s not the way the story goes. They will spend hours doubting themselves and allowing the victim role to surface, asking themselves all kinds of questions.
Don’t fear conflict in your relationship. Rather, fear indifference from your partner.
Anxious, avoidant, secure, or disorganized… Which attachment style are you?
Nick Mancini, LMFT, and owner of Lyft Colorado Counseling invited me in to his safe and welcoming practice in Cherry Creek near Denver to discuss masculinity, financial security, and permanence in relationships as it pertains to expectations.
Rebekah Freedom published author of Break Up Rehab and has been in private practice for […]